Self-image

"You don't think your way to a new way of living. You live your way to a new way of thinking."

You can get in bed as the person you know yourself to be or as who you'd like to be. That doesn't necessarily mean you're not being yourself. The process of becoming can lead you to act in wasy that exceed teh limits of your self-image. In doing what we aspire to be, we become that person. But you decide.